Finally realized

Well at least I can say that I have realized some things in the past almost 4 months around here. When some people have dumpped me as a friend around here I was fine with that part and still am at this time. When I picked up my phone yesterday morning here I found 3 texts from an ex friend here saying that she missed myself and my Husband and she still supposadly loved us also. I figured she needed more amo to tell her daughter some more lies in what is supposadly was going on here in my household. I point blanke told her straight out after almost 4 months of you not being here I feel better and give it up totally since I still did not want anything to do with her at all. The red flags basicly were figured out on the person and I just could care less in what she does anymore with her life. All I can say is that since the gal has not been here I have been better off and the house and yes I said house has got alot cleaner. That is one of the things that I have figured out around here was that my Husband did barrow money off of the gal and I am the one that paid her back totally then got dropped about 4 months later also for paying her toush back here. Ok so I scraped up the 6 grand to pay her back also here. Also I ended up going that much cheaper for the household also since the trailer. So now at this point in time I have got way to much done in the house here and the pain has pretty much been at bay here except 3 handfulls of times since the car accident and the surgery also after all said and done when I was finally free of the gals clutches.